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Chavaruca Marcia's avatar

Sy! Renė! I thought you were pure Italian and discovered that you were a porteño kid growing up

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René Volpi's avatar

It sure had its advantages. Buenos Aires is not for the weak of heart. ;)

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Chavaruca Marcia's avatar

I am here now but it’s long time I left after living the demon times of 77 being terrified of uniforms. And listen to mother’s then coming around. The world has change a lot and find BA extremely different and ghetto style. For sure we survived those times….🌻😉🦋

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René Volpi's avatar

Don't know where here is, but I assume you mean the US? But yeah, those days were not wine and roses, that's for sure. Glad you survived too!✌️

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Chavaruca Marcia's avatar

Sorry… maybe I was going to write a letter!! How terrible times tge coup thst seemed never ending but how wonderful your parents dancing tango to make a continuity of the “others” with it! Beautiful writing touches deep!

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René Volpi's avatar

Glad you like it, Marcia. Yes, I grew up in Buenos Aires.

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Ronald Schulz's avatar

I love Argentina & tango too!

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René Volpi's avatar

In that case, that makes two of us! ☝️🤠

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Jeanine Kitchel's avatar

René, went to Parque de la Memoria when in Buenos Aires area. Oh so very sad. Not only the large number of dead, but the young ages. Very moving.

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René Volpi's avatar

We have more in common than we know. Thank you for a thoughtful comment, Jeanine. 🌹

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Jean's avatar

Oh Rene, I want to know more! Do you still have your parents? Did they end up in the states with you? How did all that come about? I imagine you have written about this somewhere… on Substack?Such a lovely photo of them … I am assuming it’s them … more please.❤️

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René Volpi's avatar

It's hard to describe the moments as everything changed from day to day. It was indeed a mixture of excitement, terror, and paranoia for the adults. As a child, I observed my surroundings and lived with the vibes. I eventually packed a backpack and left for the world. My parents stayed behind when the political situation turn back to the much missed democratic government. They're still dancing in their old age. 🗽

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Urban Hermit's avatar

Thank you for this poignant reminisce. Will this be our story in the US?

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René Volpi's avatar

Thank you! I knew this comment was coming. Made the same correlation. Let's hope that won't be our case here since that's the last thing the country needs.

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Simon Brooks's avatar

Iove this piece, so wonderful and tragic and 'happy' all at once .

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René Volpi's avatar

Funny you would say that; those were the emotions as I recall them at the time. Thank you!

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Grace Drigo's avatar

Great snippet of personal and societal history. 🩵

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René Volpi's avatar

That's a great description, Grace. Thank you!

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Sandy Shaller's avatar

Rene, I'm so glad that I read, "Argentina, Tango, Sorrow & Wine." I'm reading a book about the Nazi movement in Germany and its impact on one young girl and it's so similar to what you experienced in Argentina. The main difference was that the focus in Argentina was on political descenters and in Germany it was on religious descrimination and elimination.

Your writing is excellent. The whole opening focused on your parents dancing, becomes a powerful metaphor for escape from the dangerous world around you all. Excellent!! Thank you.

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René Volpi's avatar

Much obliged! Thank you for your profound insights. Have you been to Bariloche? It's an absolute dream. 🏂

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Sandy Shaller's avatar

Rene, I haven't been there,but perhaps my wife and I can make a trip there. Thank you for making it a place to aim for.

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Tonya Still's avatar

Love the story! Was familiar with some of the history but well done Rene!!!

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René Volpi's avatar

Much obliged, Tonya. Thanks again!

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Tonya Still's avatar

I would have loved seeing your parents doing the tango! ❤️

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René Volpi's avatar

Some memories are fresh like it happened yesterday. That usually happens when one makes postcards in the mind. Thank you, Tonya! 🌹

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Tonya Still's avatar

Well said my friend! You are very welcome!! 💖

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Daniel B. Sr's avatar

I spent some time in Salta 20 some years ago and was happy to see live Tango dancing there. Enjoy your writing René. Where’s your home these days? Saludos.

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René Volpi's avatar

Oh wow. Salta is amazing! Did you see any UFOs there? I heard they're all over. I'm in Lyon rn.

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Daniel B. Sr's avatar

Didn’t see any UFOs. Love Lyon, my wife is Swiss, so we have spent some time in France over the years. We like Chamonix a lot.

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René Volpi's avatar

Too pricey for me, lol. But gorgeous scenery.

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Diane king's avatar

Thanks, Ren’e you have a wonderful Mother’s Day as well✝️🕊️❤️

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Diane king's avatar

God bless ✝️🕊️❤️

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TrueBlueOdie's avatar

René:

There is so much here, in this short story that speaks in tomes — in the darkness, in the mesmerizing sultry light of Tango, in the loneliness and the togetherness, in the underpinnings of fear, in the gripping unspoken terror of disappearing and the escape to be seen, in the joy and exhilaration of being in the present.

It is cautionary, it is historical, it is ominous and prescient. The parallels must not be overlooked in any country as freedoms become prisons, as the brilliance of creativity turns dull and grey, as youthful exuberance becomes hunched and crippled.

Yet still, there is resistance, intolerance of oppression, uprising, and victory — fueled by humanity’s undying fire of hope.

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René Volpi's avatar

Oh wow! That's an all-you-can-eat buffet of a comment if I've ever read one. I'm glad you enjoy reading my lil story. Thank you! 🙌

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